Considering the article states that the jump in self-importance
was first noted in the 1980s, I’m going to go ahead and say that social media
is definitely not to blame. The
participants would have been children of the hippie generation - love children
whose parents fought for personal freedom against the Man and his constrictive
mold of what a productive citizen should be.
In this case, a cooperative enterprise of repression begot individual rebellion. Most of my friends that have children have
said to me at some point, “I am not going to raise my kids the way my parents
raised me.” To me, this is also
indicative of a cultivation of a desperate need to set one’s offspring apart
from the apparent negativism of past collectivist culture.
Research has stated that there has been a constant increase in
measures of self-importance, and I do believe social media compounds this
remarkable shift of ego. Instant
gratification is a strong pull, and in this way I believe it has supplanted the
time it takes to refine a depth of
self and has exacerbated a pre-existing condition (or heightened sense of self-importance). Researchers also posit that schools are the
main source of “positive feelings and specialness” – no doubt because of the
ridiculous number of graduations children now face, No Child Left Behind, and
countless other policies public education has been forced to endorse. We must remind ourselves that schools are
subject to federal ruling, which in turn is subject to public opinion or
current relative attitude.
One thing I find quite interesting is with the increase in
personal self-worth, there seems to be a sharp decrease in personal
accountability (which just screams
entitlement). Scapegoats take the brunt
of responsibility when it comes to an individual owning up to his actions that may
result in negative consequences for the majority. If a collective moral compass is a root cause
of dissension, why is the next generation not taking greater liability for their
individual moral compasses? I believe
that an inflated sense of self-worth is a delusion that many people get lost in
so that they don’t get lost in the sea of others. Large groups of human beings must be constructed
around a social hierarchy, as one person’s self-importance alone does not a
happy majority make. Reversing this
principle, a single facet of a problem (i.e. technology) should not be to blame
for a multi-generational dissent into narcissism.
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